[W]e also need faith communities to move beyond their traditional “non-marital chastity” ethic, so that we can engage unmarried adults seeking to make moral decisions about their sexuality. As a 30-year-old single man recently said to me, “Rev. Debra, how can I be a good Christian and still be sexual?”

–The Rev. Debra Haffner, director of the Religious Institute and Unitarian minister, who I suspect didn’t have the humility to respond to the young man with, “how the heck would I know?”